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ShorelineCounseling Center

When it is hard to feel settled

Anxiety and Stress by video across California.

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When You Always Feel on Edge

You may feel braced for the next interruption, tense without knowing why or unable to relax when the day finally slows down. That experience can be difficult to explain, especially if other people think things look fine.

This page cannot determine the cause. Shoreline offers anxiety and stress support, and a consultation can help you discuss whether that service fits what you are experiencing.

Maybe this sounds familiar

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    You feel ready for the next problem.

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    Quiet moments do not feel restful.

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    Tension affects your everyday routines.

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    You want an assessment of what support fits.

01 · Understand

Describe what you notice

You can talk about when the feeling appears, what it is like and how it affects daily life. You do not need to choose the right clinical words. A few concrete examples can give the clinician a starting point for asking further questions.

Some concerns may need other forms of assessment or care. Be open about relevant information through the practice's approved intake process so the clinician can consider suitability rather than assume every experience has the same explanation.

02 · Practice

Ask about pace and approach

The anxiety and stress team includes different approaches to understanding patterns and responding to them. You can ask what sessions involve, how goals are set and how your feedback is used.

You should not have to promise that you will feel calm on a particular schedule. The purpose of the consultation is to learn about fit and next steps. Ongoing work can include checking what is useful and what needs to change, rather than treating a method name as a guarantee.

03 · Choose Your Next Step

Choose a clinician and a workable next step

Holly Whitmore, Emily Chen, Misty Goldenberg, Nicola Loretto, Dina Abdelaal and Aidé Merito are listed for anxiety and stress support. Their approaches include different combinations of IFS, CBT, attachment-informed and somatic work. Ask the particular clinician to explain how they work.

A consultation can address availability, fit and the practical details of California telehealth. You do not need to diagnose yourself in order to inquire, and no result is guaranteed by choosing a method.

Fees in brief

We are in network with Aetna (PPO and EPO plans only), Cigna, UnitedHealthcare, Optum and Blue Shield of California. Not every clinician is in network with every plan.

Seeing someone out of network? We provide superbills you can submit for reimbursement.

Rates and insurance

Licensed therapist

$180

per telehealth session

For adults, couples, children or families

Associate therapist

$150

per telehealth session

For adults, couples, children or families

Questions before you begin

Can a webpage tell me why I feel this way?

No. Similar descriptions can have different explanations. A qualified professional can consider your circumstances directly and discuss appropriate assessment or care.

How do I ask about this service?

Tell the practice the broad kind of support you are seeking, your language preference and whether you have a clinician in mind. Fit, availability and any fee or insurance arrangement need to be confirmed before an appointment.

A small first step

Start with a free 15 minute phone consultation to discuss provider fit, availability and the next step. Keep personal and health details out of an ordinary website inquiry. Ongoing sessions are offered by video within California.

Explore Anxiety and Stress

Make room for a different conversation

Start with a free 15 minute phone consultation. We'll help you consider provider fit and next steps.