Stop repeating the same fight
Gottman and EFT informed couples therapy by video, for partners anywhere in California.
Who this is for
Couples therapy is our flagship, and it is what we are known for. If the two of you keep landing in the same argument, or you feel more like roommates than partners, this is a good place to start.
Couples come to us when trust has been broken, when every talk turns into a standoff, or when one of you feels unheard. You don't need to agree on everything before you call. You just both need to be willing to show up.
What we work on
- Recurring conflict
- Communication pitfalls
- Broken trust
- Feeling disconnected
- Feeling misunderstood
- Emotional intimacy
How we work with this
Our couples work is directive and goal oriented. Your therapist explains common communication pitfalls, then the two of you practice specific strategies right there in session. Expect to work on active listening, healthy boundaries, mutual respect, finding common ground and improved emotional intimacy.
Gottman Method
Holly is a trained Gottman Therapist and consults the whole practice on couples work. Misty and Nicola have Level 1 Gottman Method training.
Emotionally Focused Therapy
Emily draws on EFT and attachment informed work with couples.
What sessions look like
Every session is by secure video on a HIPAA compliant platform, with nothing to download. You join from home, from work or from your parked car, anywhere in California.
You and your therapist decide together whether to meet weekly or every other week.
Clinicians who see this
- Holly Whitmore
- Emily Chen
- Misty Goldenberg
- Nicola Loretto
- Dina Abdelaal
- Aidé Merito
Holly Whitmore
MA, LMFT
Gottman couples therapy and IFS
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Emily Chen
AMFT
EFT, attachment and inner child work
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Misty Goldenberg
AMFT
EMDR, perinatal and couples work
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Nicola Loretto
MA, AMFT
Grief, identity and Gottman couples work
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Dina Abdelaal
AMFT
Trauma and PTSD, in English and Spanish
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Aidé Merito
AMFT, APCC
Teens, identity and trauma, in English and Spanish
View profileFees in brief
We are in network with Aetna (PPO and EPO plans only), Cigna, UnitedHealthcare, Optum and Blue Shield of California. Not every clinician is in network with every plan.
Seeing someone out of network? We provide superbills you can submit for reimbursement.
Rates and insuranceLicensed therapist
$180
per telehealth session
For adults, couples, children or families
Associate therapist
$150
per telehealth session
For adults, couples, children or families
Questions about couples therapy
Can couples therapy really work by video?
Couples sessions are offered by video. Your therapist will discuss the practical setup, privacy and whether the format fits your circumstances.
Who on your team sees couples?
Holly, Emily Chen, Misty, Nicola, Dina and Aidé. Tell us if you have someone in mind and we'll check availability.
How often do couples meet?
Sessions are weekly or every other week, as you and your therapist decide together.
What if only one of us is ready?
Call anyway. The free 15 minute phone consult is a low pressure way to ask questions before you both commit.
Have the next talk with help
Book a free 15 minute phone consult for couples therapy.